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Jackie lit a candle
Monday, November 7, 2022
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Jackie lit a candle
Monday, November 7, 2022
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I think about you, constantly. & I just wanna say something, your still a rockstar mama.
I love you.
Your, daughter Jackie
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Jackie Evans uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, January 10, 2021
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Jackie Evans uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, January 10, 2021
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She was my best friend/my mom/my teacher-mentor/my inspiration/business partner/sister. At times, my worst nightmare when I didn’t want to hear the truth she told me anyways & it’s because she loved me. Who else would accept me as I am regardless less of the situation or mistake. Times I didn’t think I was smart enough she helped me get my scholarship for this nursing dream we had, & I am not giving up on something me & her out in long nights for & years. Because I had to try really hard in school, especially reading & writing I stayed up all night studying while she heard me weep, she prayed. She is a big part of me passing English121 & 122 with a strong A. But she was there when times were hard, we didn’t have a choice but to work our asses off after Dad died, we got outta debt because we only had each other. I worked 3 jobs & was still in high school, she delt with my crazy teens & every heart break she felt too, because she wasn’t just my mom but my sister too. Being an only child she helped shape me as a women, I’m so proud of how hard she fought this stage 4 cancer for years, she beat the statics! She’s a fighter & she lost her love of her life, Jack Evans & for 15 years she never wanted no other man, he waited for her, & now you can say their the same age. 67. Nights I felt alone when my father passed she was there & held me while I cried myself to sleep. I miss her more, & it hurts, this heart ache pulled at the heart strings harder then my dad did when he left to be with the lord.
I’m aware that religion shouldn’t be acknowledged online so I apologize, but these two individuals are buried together & both loved Jesus Christ & followed the words & loved everyone with a kind heart no matter how bad the person was. There’s always a brighter side of death; it’s just harder to see.
I’ll see them again soon, just not any day soon! Because I still have to earned my wings here! So yeah I’m still in nursing school, well about to be after I pass my prerequisites. I can’t give up on what we as a team worked for. She may not be able to be there when I graduate, or when I marry, or be there when I deliver my first child but she knows god wanted her closer to him, because she was an angel here with us.
If it was up to her, she’d still be here in pain fighting to stay alive just to see everyone fulfill their dreams. She was happy giving not receiving gifts. She also would be the first to throw a fit if I followed the doctors orders & didn’t let her have her car keys & drive..
She came back not a sign of her temper tantrum she just had with 2 boxes of krispie cream forgetting she kinda broke my finger. She didn’t listen to the doctors when they said she would die in 6 months, so why would she listen to them then? My finger is still crooked. Full house full of food, but she explained how she was going to starve to death so yeah she always had her way with me.
She’s the only female that I will apologize to even if she’s wrong, I’d admit I was wrong, because that’s just how I was with her. I was the first to wanna say sorry, the first to admit when I’m wrong or visa versa.
Towards the end, I felt like the mother & she being the child. I think she very much liked that. But it killed her to know & I knew as well her time was limited.
There would be times I’d sleep with her cry with her in her bed. Because there’s nothing I could do to stop the cancer. & she knew it too, & she fought hard. I’m so proud of her. & I don’t know what I’m gonna do without her but I have to keep going because it’s them (Jack & Zita Evans) my parents that are counting on me to use their knowledge & they did teach me things at a young age to help me during times like these. Life skills were taught to me at 5 or 9 years old at times that a older child-adult learn. They taught me young but very well.
The umbilical cord was finally cut, & she warned her wings & this needed to happen in order for me to grow as a women.
God broke my heart & took her so I could someday earn my own wings by myself & not along side with my best friend/my mom/my business partner/side kick/shopping partner.
I have a hard time shopping, I weep at times. But it’s okay to cry, I just am sad for now because I see clothes that would have looked good on her that I wanna buy but for who?? She’s not here physically. I went through buying everything she ever wanted me to wear just to see how pretty I was. & that broke my heart as well, because I can’t physically show her & I can’t see her face light up. Retail therapy helps if you keep your receipts & return things.
If you’re mother wants you to wear that dress for picture day, wear it!! & enjoy it. Because those are the most cherished moments you can never relive.
JUST WEAR THE DAMN DRESS!
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Kenny Evans purchased flowers
Tuesday, October 13, 2020
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As we all mourn our loss of Zita, remember that she is not gone, but lives on in all our hearts. We should celebrate her love as we honor her life.
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